tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5985902870926106984.post4284840725770350359..comments2024-01-29T03:01:13.345-05:00Comments on Girl's Got Shine: Misconception about divorceGirl's Got Shinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14012743203191474092noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5985902870926106984.post-5613736069083781742012-04-11T11:54:53.792-04:002012-04-11T11:54:53.792-04:00sure its emotional, then again it depends on the m...sure its emotional, then again it depends on the maturity of the kids.. my sister in law whose parents divorced when she was in her 40's was devastated... to me, its all in how the divorce, people, handle the situation... people can make the situation ugly or treat it logically... Some can even be friends for everyone's sake...Kalei's Best Friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12331539743751163269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5985902870926106984.post-8645075683782805022012-04-11T10:46:40.565-04:002012-04-11T10:46:40.565-04:00A variety of things can keep two people connected ...A variety of things can keep two people connected after divorce, including kids. I definitely understand that having kids adds a level to the divorce - more people to consider, and more things to sort out.<br /><br />From my perspective, having kids makes everything more complicated. My friends who are parents always have more to consider than I do, when making decisions. <br /><br />I guess I Girl's Got Shinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14012743203191474092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5985902870926106984.post-30705017105299763882012-04-11T09:20:40.091-04:002012-04-11T09:20:40.091-04:00I agree w/you.. but also it depends on the maturit...I agree w/you.. but also it depends on the maturity of the people involved...right? Immaturity has no boundaries... I know one gal who was self centered and a bit immature and she's my age... Upbringing plays a big part- yes, we tend to mimic what we see and learn from our parents. I see things in my parents marriage that I knew I would never repeat and thank God, I didn't... They never Kalei's Best Friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12331539743751163269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5985902870926106984.post-57323270203517910312012-04-11T09:09:15.844-04:002012-04-11T09:09:15.844-04:00For once I disagree with you.
I went through a di...For once I disagree with you.<br /><br />I went through a divorce with a child.<br />It was handled the best it could be.<br />It's really not GETTING DIVORCED that is the problem, it's what happened AFTER the divorce.<br /><br />The child still is effected by a different family dynamic.<br /><br />Especially if, in my circumstance, the biological wanted nothing to do with him, UNTIL, I Kateri Von Stealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05168871921423248029noreply@blogger.com