You know those commercials for (some car company) that talk about how nice it is to get feature One and feature Two? One example is it's like choosing bed or breakfast, and how "and" is better.
That's how I feel about dating.
I can meet guys who are successful or smart or funny or interested in me.
I've tried combining just a couple of these qualities. I've even tried replacing one or more of them with 'ridiculously handsome.'
But the more I try to substitute or make concessions, the more I realize that car commercial is right.
And is better.